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Why I Decided To Travel For One Life Changing Year

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21 Jul
one life changing year ninh binh landscape

Visited Ninh Binh in Vietnam during my one life changing year of travel

DL: Are you going to have a hashtag?
Me: *wrinkles nose* No… too much work
DL: Oh come on, you have to! How else will we follow your travels?
Me: No. Too lazy

And that, my friends, is how #onelifechangingyear came to be. My dear friend DL planted this seed in my head that stayed with me for weeks until I came up with the perfect hashtag. A hashtag that had yet to be claimed and a name that is reflective of my upcoming adventures.

It will indeed be one life changing year as I spend my time travelling around Asia. Living overseas to experience life outside of Canada was the original dream, but it has now evolved into perpetual travel. Well, just for a year or so.

“Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you’ll land among the stars.”

one life changing year dream bayon temple angkor wat

Bayon temple in Cambodia

I must have come across Les Brown’s famous words at a young age because I have been dreaming without boundaries for as long as I can remember. And I’m lucky to have parents who are supportive of my nontypical thinking. As a child, I’d share my crazy ideas with my dad, to which he said “You can do whatever it takes to make you happy as long as you try. If you don’t, then you’re squandering the privilege you have by being born in Canada and wasting your potential. So just try, it’s ok. But FIRST, get a proper education and build a good career. You need financial stability because, without that, you have limited choices. Everything else, do it on the side but focus on those two things”.

So I took his advice

I followed societal norms and expectations to a T, studied like there was no tomorrow and got my designation. But the whole time, I had this romantic notion of living in Aussie for a year. And it was very much within my reach, especially since my designation is recognized in Australia.

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Her way of saying she’s fed up with my nonstop studies!

Did everything as expected

Lived life by the script and worked like a maniac while studying during almost every free time that I had.

One day, some day, I told myself. I quietly went back to my usual routine while intermittently reminding myself of my dream.

One day… someday.

Over time, that some day became the day after I finish my studies.

When I completed my studies, it became the day after I work a few more years to build up my resume.

But then I had issues as a tenant and needed stability in my life

I was tired of living a transient life where I bought furniture based on ease of reselling (Hi Ikea) when it came time to move. Because I moved around a lot in that period in my life. Eight times to be exact, in less than a decade.

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That dog has moved to four different cities with me. And those boxes were like gold during that decade. Each time I settled into a new home, I’d save those boxes in anticipation of the next move

I’ll never forget the first day in my home. Finally, a physical place to call mine! I was so happy and so excited that I ignored that lingering voice inside my head as I lay on the ground of my empty condo. What about your dream? What does this mean for your dream?

I brushed it aside and continued with my life. What’s meant to be will find a way. That was my excuse.

But then I cracked over time…

one life changing year dream

Welcoming the new year where I said enough was enough, I have to take control of my life again

On the outside, my life couldn’t seem more flawless. But on the inside, I was losing my identity and could barely recognize myself. My life seemed so perfect, but I didn’t want perfection. I wanted to be free, to feel free. I wanted what I had always wanted. Just a short period in my life to wander, explore, learn and feel small in this magnificent universe. You know that feeling when you watch the waves crash in a hypnotic flow? Or when you look up into the sky and see a gazillion twinkling stars? And when you start to think of the age of each star, you realize how insignificant you are? Yeah… that feeling. That’s what I call feeling small. It’s the most powerful and humbling feeling in the world. That is what I love most. That is when I feel alive.

But instead, I was following what others expected of me. It’s not even their dream, just their expectations.

For more than a year, I woke up every day with one thought; my life is not my own.

Travelling was my wake up call from the autopilot life

Gary and I booked an impromptu trip to Iceland with some friends. It was very last minute, and I had no expectations at all about the mini vacation. What I didn’t realize was how alive I felt throughout the trip. Was it from seeing the magical Northern Lights for the first time? Was it because I was in one of the most beautiful countries in the world? I don’t know what it was; all I remember was crying my eyes out while listening to Tim Ferriss’ podcast on my way home from Iceland. I knew something in my life needed to change. And I needed to take action because I was miserable.

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Gary and I in Iceland

That thought was the beginning of the journey of pursuing my dream.

Up until this point, I had done everything that others have expected of me. Made my job happy, made my parents proud. But just this once, just this year, I want to do something that makes me super duper happy. In the grand scheme of things, it’s just one year.

What is your dream?

Bagan travel blog - temple exploring on our own

“For all of the most important things, the timing always sucks. Waiting for a good time to quit your job? The stars will never align and the traffic lights of life will never all be green at the same time. The universe doesn’t conspire against you, but it doesn’t go out of its way to line up the pins either. Conditions are never perfect. “Someday” is a disease that will take your dreams to the grave with you. Pro and con lists are just as bad. If it’s important to you and you want to do it “eventually,” just do it and correct course along the way” – The 4-Hour Workweek. Photo was taken in Bagan

As I slowly opened up to people about my dream (or my One Life Changing Year Project, as I now call it), I had an array of responses, ranging from “You’re crazy” to “I admire you.” What stood out to me is the number of people who shared their deepest dreams and what holds them back from chasing after what they want in their heart.

Most of the time, it is fear that prevents them from chasing after their dream

Fear of failure, fear of what other people will think of them, fear of not knowing where to start.

Don’t be afraid. Don’t stop dreaming. If it warms your heart and the thought of it puts a smile on your face, take my father’s advice.

Try. Just try.

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  1. Nicole says

    July 22, 2017 at 10:00 pm

    Inspiring! Our family has taken a leap of faith as well, being full time RVers now, traveling the country. Thanks for sharing your story and reminding us all that living outside the norm is so much better for our souls!

    Reply
    • Nancy says

      July 29, 2017 at 1:20 am

      That is so amazing! I will make sure to visit your blog and follow your journeys 🙂 I’m sure there are some similar things we share being full time travellers 🙂

      Reply
  2. Familyearthtrek says

    July 25, 2017 at 8:37 am

    First of all..that photo of you and Gary! Wow! If that doesnt make you to discover and explore more then I dont know what can!
    I am glad that you finally listen to your inner voice of following your dream to travel! And it was a very good idea to have a solid education and working experiences beforw jumping into the wild world! Good luck with your travels and enjoy!❤️

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    • Nancy says

      July 29, 2017 at 1:21 am

      Thanks so much! That photo was taken with a point and shoot (crazy huh?) and it definitely lit a fire under my bum to go back to buying a proper camera! Hopefully, I’ll be able to take better photos during my travels.

      Reply
  3. Sam says

    July 25, 2017 at 10:18 am

    That’s a great idea! I had never thought of creating a hashtag! Definitely an interesting idea for those who really want to follow our journeys 🙂

    Reply
    • Nancy says

      July 29, 2017 at 1:22 am

      Thanks, Sam. Credit goes to my friend who egged me on to create one 🙂

      Reply
  4. Carolina says

    July 25, 2017 at 11:55 pm

    Keep shoot to the moon girl! Your story is so inspiring.
    Happy travels! !

    Xoxo
    Caroline

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    • Nancy says

      July 29, 2017 at 1:22 am

      Thanks girl 🙂

      Reply
  5. Jamil Ahmed says

    July 26, 2017 at 6:28 am

    Hello Nancy,

    Very inspiring. I was not able to make any plan for the last 2 years even outside my city. Just busy with working. But, I think its time to take a break and travel for someday. Thanks.

    Regards,

    Jamil

    Reply
    • Nancy says

      July 29, 2017 at 1:22 am

      It will happen when it will happen. Everyone has their own time 🙂

      Reply
  6. HUNG THAI says

    August 12, 2017 at 2:29 am

    Dreaming is free 🙂 Trying is free (sometimes). But living your dream… well, that’s worth everything.

    Reply
    • Nancy says

      August 12, 2017 at 6:26 am

      Indeed it is 🙂 I cannot wait to follow your journeys as you launch your dream!

      Reply
  7. Tracy says

    August 21, 2017 at 6:06 am

    I believe it wasn’t easy in the beginning. But eventually you will.. Keep on pursuing as I am pursuing mine, too. 🙂

    Reply
    • Nancy says

      August 28, 2017 at 2:01 am

      Yay, dreamers unite! I’m curious about your dream now 🙂

      Reply
  8. Exploring Curiously says

    January 7, 2018 at 7:13 pm

    I love your writing style! I work full time & am able to travel quite a bit as I have a lot of time off. But I am very close to quitting my job in June and traveling for a year. I find myself seeking out blogs of others who have done the same. Maybe you wrote about it, but I haven’t found it yet: Did you sell your condo, rent it, or something else? What about your adorable dog? I look forward to reading more of your posts!

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    • Nancy says

      January 11, 2018 at 2:31 am

      Thank you so much for the kind words! I haven’t written about it, but I can share here what I did with my condo. I rented it out and left my dog with my parents. She’s forgotten about me by now as my parents spoil her with timbits (aka donut holes) and food! I hope my blog helps you with your journey prep and if you have any specific questions, please don’t hesitate to ask 🙂

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      • Exploring Curiously says

        January 11, 2018 at 7:26 pm

        Thank you! Those are the same things I am thinking I will do with my condo & pets. I might take you up on your offer of asking questions.

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        • Nancy says

          January 31, 2018 at 9:23 am

          No problem! Good luck on your travel journey! 2018 will be exciting for you!

          Reply
  9. James Ahlan says

    January 16, 2018 at 2:16 pm

    I have read your blogs and I understand where you are coming from. Kudos for your drive to explore Asia for a year. Our son did a similar journey, from Canada to Nepal visiting the Asia-Pacific countries along the way. He took a year off to travel across these places before starting his postgraduate education. I will leave you with two quotes: 1) Travelling – It leaves you speechless, then turns you into a storyteller. It offers you a hundred roads to adventure, and gives your heart wings” – Ibn Battuta (1304-1639). 2) Photography – It remembers little things long after you have forgotten everything” – Aaron Siskind (1903-1991). On these terms, you are doing fine with your blogs and your images. Remember, first and foremost, that you are travelling for your memories. Take notes and make images along the way. To your better half Gary, I would say: “Go with the flow. You’ll not regret this adventure”.

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    • Nancy says

      January 31, 2018 at 9:37 am

      Hi James, thank you so much for your kind words of encouragement! That is so cool that your son had the chance to travel for a year at a young age before he began his studies!

      I love those quotes and I agree about travelling for the memories. I also think travel helps to open one’s perspective and mind as well 🙂

      Reply

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